Ladies, if you're dating a guy that says he's one way, don't be so quick to jump into anything with him right away.  Just give it time and wait for him to really show his true colors. Often times, now a days, a dude (these are not men) will send his "representative" to stand in his place. Now, the "representative" he sends says that he has it all together, sometimes he even has a sob story to go along with his so called "togetherness". Some of those stories can include how his girlfriend doesn't treat him right, how his wife is just a total bitch (their favorite), or no one understands him, blah, blah, blah. Don't fall for it, it's fuckery at it's finest. Just wait! I'm telling you he'll eventually show up and show his ass. It always happens! Be patient and wait. You'll save yourself the frustration, self doubt and ultimately heartache! Trust me, got a t-shirt and several shot glasses from trips I've taken down this road!

When they show you who they are, believe them the first time! Don't hold any ill feelings or wish them any ill will. What's for them, they'll eventually get. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off and throw up the middle finger as he watches your ass bounce off into the sunset. Remember, it's his loss and be grateful for all of the drama you dodged. I'm telling you, self love is better than his raggedy ass love on ANY day!

Have a good day my lovelies! ❤

Well, well, well I never thought I'd be starting a blog and to tell you the truth, the whole blogging thing never crossed my mind, but the powers that be saw differently and well, I'm here.

Guess I'd better introduce myself before I start to ramble senselessly about what brought me here. I'm Teasha, but my family and friends (now all of you are included) call me "Tea"! I'm middle aged and that's all I have to say about that. I'm the mother of two wonder boys, one twenty, the other twelve going on sixty. I'm no stay at home mom (God knows I wish I was), so I'm up Monday through Friday on the grind like everyone else that has bills that bully them (by the way, I'm starting a campaign for this, I'll need supporters...anybody?). I'm happily in love with my handsome knight in shining armour (just so you know, it wasn't a white horse...it was a white Mitsubishi Galant that he rode up on...hey, don't judge me)! We've been together for 14 years now and I can tell you, there's never a dull moment.

What brought me here? My BIG mouth and my "wild thoughts"!! Like I told you earlier, blogging never crossed my mind, but I kept getting signs from everywhere and everyone that blogging was something that I was supposed be doing. People would read my posts on social media sights and always comment to me "why don't you start a blog" or "you know, you'd be good at blogging", so here I am! Ready to give it a try.

Hope that I'll be able to bring a little bit of my flavor, that I so love to spread around, to each of you. So grab your teacups and your crumpets and settle in for a "Hot Cup Of Tea"!!